Guys guys guys....why are they so confusing?

You should be strong and not care so much about him. Meaning just test him to see how much he really wants to be with you by not being available. If he really wanted to be with you, he will. In the mean time, get over him emotionally but keep him in the radar. Try to. You'll see your answer very soon. It's hard to do the most rational thing when you're so emotionally overwhelmed. Hope I helped.